You know, I wonder - does anyone really rip live audio from these concert videos onto their iPods? They're such poor quality! Many of them aren't even of the complete song.
Steph makes a good point that a very small percentage of video from concerts makes its way to YouTube. That's true not just for the Eagles, but for any concert I've gone to. I saw lots of people filming Lindsey Buckingham on their digital cameras in New Orleans, for instance, but when I go to YouTube, there's only one poor quality 90-second clip! That's it! And it's not because Lindsey's taken them down; he doesn't care about them. It's just most folks don't take the time and trouble to upload their videos. They're taking them for themselves, as "souvenirs."
The Eagles are getting themselves all worked up over something that's not even that big of a problem. Certainly it has not caused a catastrophic loss of ticket sales, as all who have gone to their shows can attest! They're still able to charge a massive amount of money and sell out crowds. This has no ill affect on them. I really don't see why they make such a big deal about it.
I really don't really believe there's anyone out there going, "Well, I was planning on spending $200 to see the Eagles live, but now that I can see poor quality clips of a few songs on YouTube, I'll save my money!"
If the Eagles believe that this is a common mentality and that YouTube videos of live shows are causing them to lose tons of money in ticket sales, they're out of touch with the attitude of the typical fan. The typical fan does not go to a show just to hear/see music live. The typical fan goes for the larger experience. Otherwise, they'd just stay at home and watch Farewell 1.
I truly don't believe those videos have adversely affected ticket sales AT ALL.
If anyone can find proof that these videos have indeed negatively impacted ticket sales, please, feel free to link to it.
I do think the vanity angle is an issue. I can sympathize with that - I wouldn't like to have videos of me online where I felt I looked bad. However, the vast majority of these videos are fawned over by fans, many of whom believe the guys look great in them. I think they might be too hard on themselves there. Just because they look older doesn't mean they don't look good.
Of course, as I've said elsewhere, despite the fact that I feel they're making a mountain out of a molehill, I do respect their wishes and refrain from filming the band. I don't want to distract or upset them, so I also discourage others from taking videos during their shows.
I think if they sweetly and in good humor request that people not film, they will get fewer people to video without garnering any ill will. Realistically, though, they will never get universal cooperation no matter what they say, and I just wish they would accept that and not let it affect their performance.