Thank you for saying it. Vulgar is, if anything, an understatement!
One of the reasons I love belonging to The Border is because we don't tolerate nastiness. Criticism is generally specific: there is one aspect of the music or (less often) the person that we are commenting on, rather than making generalisations.
I would love the chance to robustly debate with any of the boys, although I think I would feel a bit uncomfortable with Felder, given some of the comments he made in his book and in interviews.